Friday, May 22, 2009

Speaking of the Rose of Sharon...


My love was presumably named for a flower.  Though they can get quite tall and look for all the world like a tree, the Rose of Sharon is actually a bush.  They grow all over Manhattan and I love them.  The name is biblical, coming from the Song of Solomon, "I am the lily of the valley and the rose of Sharon".  

The are covered for six months of the year with large blossoms that can be either a fair pink or a deeper magenta or a cream color with a magenta center.

They are lovely.  Just like The Rose of Sharon Anne Christine Frei Turrentine.

The Rose of Sharon



Her full name is The Rose of Sharon Anne Christine Frei Turrentine.  The Turrentine is the married part.

And thirty years ago I was in love with her.

Sharon was my college love and the girl with whom I moved to New York.  We were together for years.  Four?  Maybe slightly less.  Maybe slightly more.  I don't think either of us would know exactly.

It was never going to work, but that didn't mean that I didn't adore her.  I did.  I last saw her fifteen years ago when she and her groovy husband David came in for the 25th Anniversary Pride Parade.

Seven years ago I wrote a song about her called "My First Mistake".  Carly Simon says to be a good friend to your songs and never tell their secrets.  Sorry Carly.  "Mistake" is Sharon.

And on Saturday she heard it.  Johary sang it in the guest portion of the program, then I reprised it near the end and dedicated it to the girl who inspired it. 

Sharon is a precious part of my life story.  I don't want to lose track of her again.  When you love someone that much, it never goes away.  At least not for me.

Monday, September 22, 2008

My roomie on... oh my God... Page 6!


Never did I expect to quote the New York Post on my blog, and certainly not Page 6.

However, they did run a nice little piece on my roomate Jimmy yesterday. Remember him? The tour owner/operator?

I like to promote my friends, so... whatcha gonna do? Oh - and they ran it with an incongruous picture of Julianne Moore.

*****

September 21, 2008 --
DIANA Taylor is a tourist attraction. Jim Dykes, who runs Rich and Famous Tours, was leading a group of out-of-towners down East 79th Street when the door of Mayor Bloomberg's elegant 1910 townhouse flew open - and out bolted the state banking superintendent in blue jeans, sneakers and tank top, headed to Central Park with two Labrador retrievers. The pooches pulled Taylor over to the group for a moment, and the tourists eagerly petted the tail-waggers. When Taylor moved on, Dykes announced, "You just met your first New York celebrity . . . that was a casually dressed Diana Taylor, our billionaire mayor's longtime girlfriend . . . and her dogs."


*****

Miss Taylor has waited long enough...


So, it has been a while since I have dined with the irresistable Miss Abigail Taylor. I know. But she isn't standing for it anymore, so tomorrow we are meeting for burgers and Broadway shakes (coffee ice cream with chocolate syrup) at Tom's. Actually, Abby might do a cherry shake.


Tom's was the sight of last week's marvelous catchup lunch with wonderful Liz Reddick. It must be my new lucky place! No wonder Jerry and Elaine loved it so.

Broadway On Broadway


Elizabeth and Johary and I treked down to Times Square a week ago for the annual Broadway on Broadway kickoff to the Fall Theater season. It's a two hour concert (attended this year by 50,000 standing showtune fans) where every musical on Broadway sends a number. "Can You Feel the Love Tonight" from Lion King. "I've Got My Love to Keep Me Warm" from the upcoming White Christmas. "The Wizard and I" from Wicked. It's fun. Carolee Carmello rocked on "The Winner Takes It All". At the very end, the combined casts sing "New York, New York" and tons of confetti rains down on the Square. It truly makes you tingle.


Anyway, because of the Big Bro, my friends and I are among the 200 folks who get to sit though it. This year I took Johary and Elizabeth. Oops! I already told you that. Anyway, the photo above is Elizabeth at the left, looking artsy and Bohemian, a wedge of my over-peroxided head in the middle, and Johary, who refuses to take a bad picture, at the right.

Play your cards right and maybe next year you can go!

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

At four in the morning I think...

I couldn't sleep last night and I can ALWAYS sleep. So I rewrote my club act in my head, did the second verse of a new song called "And You Know Who You Are", fretted about the reversability of knee injuries, and came to this conclusion, based upon a lifetime of reserach:

A.) It is possible for a love relationship to be passionate and responsible;
B.) It is more fun when a love relationship is passionate and out of control;
C.) Passionate and out of control has to implode;
D.) Passionate and responsible is sustainable.

Soooooooooooo, it's really about whether you want something epic and ultimately tragic or something that's going to stay around. And that is not a simple choice. I have had both and have nothing to offer beyond that incredibly deep, four-in-the-morning observation.

LOL.

Friday, September 12, 2008

Moi at the Metropolitan Room

One of the lovely upshots of the MetroStar Talent Challenge this summer is that the host club, The Metropolitan Room, made it clear that they wanted to book me. The room was chosen this year by New York Magazine as the Best Cabaret in New York. Take that, Oak Room. It's the performance home of Julie Wilson, Maureen McGovern, Faith Prince, Tom Wopat, Baby Jane Dexter, Andrea McArdle... on and on.

Anyway, they were sincere. They have asked me to do my thing on November 5th, 12th and 19th. Cool! And I've decided, for a change, that's it's just me... no guest stars, just me.

So save the dates and meet me in Chelsea in November for an evening of me. I promise Kafka on the train!!!

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

Meryl on the Wonder Wheel


High on the list of people I abjectly adore but hardly ever see is Ms. Meryl Rosner. I just found this pic online of the indefatigable Meryl rocking the world --- and the Wonder Wheel --- one last time before Astroland joins New York past.


Meryl Rosner? Wonder Wheel? Love 'em both!!!

Monday, September 8, 2008

A very, very, very guilty pleasure...


Sylvia:
A horse and carriage just for me? And they'll pull me through the streets? Just like when Miss Louise Beavers passed in "Imitation of Life"?


Teddy
That was Juanita Moore.


Sylvia
Not the tragic Lana Turner remake, you ninny!


*******************


That exchange happens near the top of Sylvia So Far, my musical tribute to an adored friend. But last night it was the tragic Lana Turner remake TCM showed, and Jimmy and I watched --- and guffawed through --- every delicious moment.


My fave? It includes what must be the most ineptly performed number in cinema history, the irresistable "The Lonliest Word (I've Ever Heard Is Empty"). Susan Kohner sure is pretty as Sarah Jane, but a triple-threat she is not. The song, bad as they come, has been insinuating itself through my day and I have a smile just remembering Miss Kohner's airport runway choreography.

Jimmy's Rich and Famous Tours


Abigail took his bus tour recently and told me he is wonderful, but I had my first taste yesterday of what a marvelous tour guide and all-around NYC authority Jimmy Dykes is! If you have friends or family coming in the city, Jim's tours would be a wonderful treat for them. The link for his website is http://www.richandfamoustours.com/.

Morris-Jumel Mansion







The great thing about having a roomie who owns a local touring agency is the endless wealth of knowledge he has about the city. Yesterday morning was so gorgeous that Jimmy and I decided spontaneously to head out and over to the Morris-Jumel Mansion, which survives from Pre-Revolutionary days. I had never been there! LOVED IT!!! Go, go, go. It's (I think) 161 and Edgecomb, but the streets go squonky up there a bit so I'm not sure exactly where I was. Before noon admission is a dollar!

Patty Decker


I know, I know, I know... I haven't blogged since the Truman administration. Sorry! Sometimes life is just a little too busy to blog.


Anyway, the pic above is Susannah Berryman. Whom I do not know. On the right. OH!!! But the left? That's Patty Decker, whom I fell madly in love with in September of 1977. She was my first college girlfriend back in the days of Loyola University.


Can you believe it? So, Patty tracked me down recently through the internet and we agreed to get together sometime. Just like the dozens of other people I promise to get together with sometime and never do. But the difference? PATTY AND I ACTUALLY GOT TOGETHER!


Yes, we reconnected yesterday afternoon at Alice's Teacup on the Upper Westside. And she is wonderful! Like any one of my pushing-fifty friends, she has a tale to tell, but it's a good one and I loved seeing her. I also loved the herbed mayo egg salad, the sesame-infused greens, and the cupcake smothered in buttercream.


It was lovely to be together again and I want to see her soon.

Thursday, August 28, 2008

Another painting I love...


This came into the possession of the Metropolitan Museum of Art about three years ago. It's one of Matisse's famous Marguerite portraits and something about all of them, but this one in particular, makes me very happy.


I ran across the jpeg when I was looking for a fig tree picture. I try to say hello to "Marguerite Wearing a Hat" every time a go to the Met (which is frequent).

Problematic for Me: Mark 11:11-22


This was the story in today's vacation Bible School at WECC and it is my least favorite story in the New Testament:



From The Gospel of Mark:


Jesus entered Jerusalem and went to the temple. He looked around at everything, but since it was already late, he went out to Bethany with the Twelve.


The next day as they were leaving Bethany, Jesus was hungry. Seeing in the distance a fig tree in leaf, he went to find out if it had any fruit. When he reached it, he found nothing but leaves, because it was not the season for figs. Then he said to the tree, "May no one ever eat fruit from you again." And his disciples heard him say it.


On reaching Jerusalem, Jesus entered the temple area and began driving out those who were buying and selling there… When evening came, they went out of the city.


In the morning, as they went along, they saw the fig tree withered from the roots. Peter remembered and said to Jesus, "Rabbi, look! The fig tree you cursed has withered!"


"Have faith in God," Jesus answered. "I tell you the truth, if anyone says to this mountain, 'Go, throw yourself into the sea,' and does not doubt in his heart but believes that what he says will happen, it will be done for him.


*****


Okay, I love the message about the mountain throwing itself into the sea, but I have always been VERY CONCERNED for the poor fig tree. Even Mark says it wasn't the season for figs! Okay, okay I get it. It is always the season of God anything can happen with faith. I get it. But again, I feel for the fig tree. Clearly Jesus was worked up this day (which climaxed with the trashing of the temple).

My biggest personal problem with figs? They occasionally masquerade in cookies as chocolate chips. But that's just a Tim issue and I'm certainly not going to curse a tree over a disappointing cookie.

It's just a strange story that reminds me that Jesus was, among the divine things, oh so human.

Made a simple dinner...


Nothing complex but so yummy. Johary (at left) was coming over, I had very little time to cook, so I made a simple pasta. I browned some sirloin, did a very rough chop of a small but VERY POTENT white onion, added some minced garlic. I tore up one red and one green pepper and diced a small jalepeno, which I threw in. Added some crushed tomotoes from a can (!) and enough red wine to come to the top of the skillet. When it boiled down some I added a handful of diced crisp bacon. All of this cooked slow for about two hours, then I boiled up some tri-color rotini, baked off some biscuits (Johary loves rolls and croissants and biscuits, etc.) and called it dinner.


It was very satisfying and we had a marvelous time, then there was Haagen Dazs Caramel Cone ice cream for later.


I've said it before, but one of my favorite things is to cook for and feed people I love. I adore it and consider a great blessing.


Yay!

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

I know, I know...

I've blogged not at all since returning three days ago! But I've been insanely busy (it's Vacation Bible School week), I've been trying to catch up on sleep, Johary is coming over or dinner tonight, blah blah blah.

I shall relate my adventures soon, I promise!

Monday, August 25, 2008

I'm home!

And utterly exhausted. It was a wonderful and deeply fulfilling week. I'll blog about it later. Love to all.

Friday, August 15, 2008

He swims tonight!


I've read 10:14pm, 10:19pm, and heard 10:21pm on the radio...


Whenever, I'll be watching and cheering as Michael Phelps makes a go of swimming into history. He seems like such a decent fella!


You rock, MP!

Countdown: 3 days to NOLA


Pralines!


I always said "pray-leens" with the accent on the "pray". Evidently, in New Orleans, they are "prah-leens", still accenting the first syllable, but more gently. Pray or prah, I love 'em!!!


Pralines

1 quart heavy cream
3 cups sugar
6 cups chopped pecans
juice of 1 lemon

In a heavy saucepan slowly simmer cream and sugar over low heat until the mixture becomes golden brown in color and reaches the soft-ball stage (234 degrees F. on candy thermometer). Add pecans and lemon juice and continue to cook until the soft-ball stage is reached again.
Drop from a large kitchen spoon onto an oiled baking sheet. Spread each cake out with back of spoon to about 1/4 inch thick and 4 to 5 inches in diameter. Let harden, then lift from plate or slab with a spatula.

Thursday, August 14, 2008

Like it was yesterday.


Who remembers the blackout of 2003?


I do, I do!!!


Five years ago today. Tonight, actually. I remember I was on my way home from work. At the time I was at TheaterMania, the ticket brokerage. The company was housed on that uber-Chelsea block anchored by the Limelight at one end and the West Side Club at the other.


Anyway, I'd left work around 5pm and boarded the subway heading home to make dinner for David. We were months away from moving in together - a huge step for both of us - and in that heady "Oh, I get to see him tonight!!!" phase of our relationship. Rather than get off the train at 137th, as I would normally do, I rode ahead to 145 to jump into the grocery for supplies and the liquor store for Jack Daniels. Then it happened. We left the 137th station, went maybe a block at the most, and suddenly slid to a total stop. For a heartbeat all the lights went out, then a completely different set of lights, lights I had not seen before, flickered on very bright.


There were about 20 people in my car (it had been packed at 42nd Street - thank god most of them had gotten off). A woman with a baby. Young people going home from first jobs. A big, thick muscled bearded dude reading the paper.


For a moment we all just look up and at each other. I'd never felt the subway just slide still, never seen this bank of lights. After a minute or two, the conductor spoke over the speaker system and said the line had lost power and we'd be detained a minute. Several more minutes passed and, though we were sitting in total bright light, the air conditioning had conked out and it takes no time for a subway car on a blistering August day to get very hot. The bearded dude with the big biceps stoop up, flashed a badge and said, "NYPD. Sit tight and I'll find out what's going on."


As he left the conductor spoke again telling us that we were in a citywide blackout and evacuation proceedings were about to begin. The crackle of his microphone had hardly stopped when another voice came over the speaker and announced that the entire Eastern Seaboard was without power. Everyone looked up with that apprehensive echo behind their eyes that thinks but does not say "terrorism?". I had been in the subway when the first plane hit, on the street when the second decimated the north tower and so many lives. There was an eerie ominousness about it.


The bearded muscled dude returned with another man and they told us the train was being evacuated from back to front because passengers were being walked back to the 137th stop we had just left. It was closer than the 145th stop where we were headed. He disappeared, taking the woman with the baby with him. We were, by the way, the very front car, so our rescue was going to wait a bit.


To the credit of the NYPD, the MTA, the whomever, we sat in the increasing but tolerable heat for about an hour when bearded biceped dude returns with a couple of other guys and says, "This is the drill. We're going to walk you through the train all the way to the back car. Then we will lift you to the tracks, where you will walk single file back to 137th Street. You will be lifted again over the third rail, then led out of the subway station via an escape exit to the street. Be extremely careful, since the power could return at any time and the third rail is deadly."


No pressure there!


So that is what we did. It seemed like a group adventure and, of course, the auxiliary lighting in the train was great. We laughed. Joked. Had each other's backs. Then we got to end of the car and the reality of it set in. At the end of the train there was nothing but void. Utter black. I saw a flashlight dip from the back platform to the track and someone a few people in front of me was whooshed away. The next. The next. My turn came. Nothing ahead but black, then suddenly a flashlight on me, then on the platform floor, then it moved to the pathway by the track and two arms picked me up and set me down in a heartbeat in the middle of the subway tracks. A voice said "put you hand on my back and follow me". I did. Every several feet a flashlight would sweep across the track in front of us and I could see a snakeline of folks - or the silhouettes of folks - in front of me. Community is nice.


Eventually things slowed and I could hear voices and laughs and moans and objections a few feet ahead. In a minute a flashlight shone on the face of a young, humpy man who said, "NYPD. I'm going to bucket lift you and hand you over the third rail to my buddy". No prob with me. So, in the near dark, this guy picks me up like he's Richard Gere and I'm Debra Winger ( I didn't reach for his hat) and deposits me in the arms of some other enormous dude on the other side.


It was all roses from there. Someone else showed up and led a group of us to an escape stairwell with enough natural light coming from above (it was still completely light above ground) that we could navigate the stairs and suddenly I was in the chaos of 137th and Broadway.


So, that was it. David eventually found his way home. He had walked from 23rd to 107th and had no intention of heading further. We were able to talk on the phone because we both had land lines and they worked in the blackout. So I spent the night huddled with the radio, listening to updates, causes, warnings about looters. And about 5am, with a tiny whir, every light in the apartment came on.


That was it. No drama. And, I think I am glad to know that the MTA has a plan. And that the bearded muscled dude reading the paper might be the one who is going to lead you out of a jam.